You have given me a much better understanding of my H now. Of all the things you listed, I think H is affected by: - Stress - Exhaustion/too busy - Habit - plus he is taking ADs for panic attack
And H tells me the following all the time too.
First off...you are NOT his last priority. I got this crap all the time from my W. He wouldn't be busting his ass and all stressed out because he liked it...he's doing it for you and his family. Now he might be over doing it and needs to manage stress better...but he's probably afraid of failing to provide for his family. So you are his top priority..and he probably doesn't want you to have to worry about all the things he worries about.
How could I still possibly think that I was so low down in priority. Silly me.
I shall try to remember these things you've said as well:
The problem is probably his stress, his inability to say what he wants, and probably some other general communication problems.
Patience...patience...patience....
My H is a non-verbal person and more visual so I will try to work on that. I've also learned to speak his LL very well these days that he constantly tells me how much he looks forward to coming home everyday and how he enjoys his weekends with me and D2 and how much easier I've made life for him.
