Wife has left and filed for divorce

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I don't know if I should have my L try to reduce the RO, or go another route instead. My IC thinks I should ask my MIL if my W would take a letter from me. It's a letter of empathy and validation, and if my W agrees to take it he suggests I add an addendum asking for a chance to talk wherever and with whoever as a chaperone--basically in any way she wants in order to help her feel safe since she doesn't feel safe with me right now.

What do you all think? I don't want to push her away with my pursuing, and yet I haven't seen any other sitch in these forums where the W has a mutual RO and has been completely NC for 7 weeks.

I'm just afraid that if we continue with the NC without any attempt by me to talk with her and to show her I want to work things out, that she'll simply continue walking away as she grows to like her new life more and more.