Thanks Ahoy and Little. I'm trying. It's getting easier everyday. I had to go unlock a gate for him yesterday and I swear he looks like he's aged 5 years in a week. Sad eyes.
Oh well, I just smiled, and he thanked me and I left.
Had a minor setback yesterday evening. After dinner, I stopped at corner store with S10 and one of the ladies that works there said, "So I hear your H is still messing with OW?" I replied, "Not sure what he's doing, nor do I care."
Obviously I do care or I wouldn't have texted H. "Nice hearing about you and OW when I take our S places, nice".
Think I will find another store to go to as I really don't need to hear that crap.
Me-49, H-45 M - 4, Together 9 SS-9 Bomb Dropped - 9/12 Separation - 10/12 Reconcile -2/13 Separation - 8/2013 Reconcile - 10/2013 Separation - 12/2013 Reconcile - 2/14 Separate - 5/14 H Filed D - 8/14
I've been dark and now he's texting me like crazy.
Asked me to come eat tomorrow at our beach house. Where he stays when he has our son. I asked was OW still in his life? He said, forget it. I said well as long as she is, I'm not.
Will not be a option for him.
Me-49, H-45 M - 4, Together 9 SS-9 Bomb Dropped - 9/12 Separation - 10/12 Reconcile -2/13 Separation - 8/2013 Reconcile - 10/2013 Separation - 12/2013 Reconcile - 2/14 Separate - 5/14 H Filed D - 8/14
Tina, WOW is all I can say. You are clearly a woman only a fool would leave. Stay your course. Ball is in your Hs court and you've made that crystal clear.
H 37 Me 36 Together 15 years Married 5 years No kids BD Apr 2014 H moved out 2 Jun 2014
Tina Dealing with H is one thing, but OW texting you is another. Keep the evidence.
If it had been me I would by now have done a 180 and put the texts on automatic forwarding. To his email if you can because he would respond immediately by text or phone. email would be less easy for him. Plus you can block email responses from him. If that's not possible then manual forwarding. No comment though other than to tell him they are being forwarded.
Glad you are here, keep posting.
Vanilla
Last edited by Vanilla; 12/07/1407:48 AM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
Ignore the rail, H knows the truth, it's just a big rationalisation that you are rejecting him because there is someone else. That's his behaviour not yours. Smile to yourself, it's irrational and not you.
Now OW texting you makes some sense to me, H only seems to want what he can't have. OW is no longer such an attractive proposition to H and she may see it. Possibly roll out next OW?
I got this, apparently my affair is a 72 year old much married female called Jo, who H felt w as a hansome young buck with whom I had a great passion. He still does not know Jo is female and a fellow Rotarian with whom I was arranging parking permits for a concert!
Keep strong Vanilla
Last edited by Vanilla; 12/16/1411:11 AM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
