Be the bigger man here, Vertex. All it takes is one phone call from you to your L and advise him to drop the RO/Order of Protection against your W. Have him communicate this to W's L. You can only control what YOU can do. What your W does or doesn't do is out of your control.
Keep working on your issues with your IC, group therapy, whatnot. You're headed in the right direction.
It was my W's lawyer who wanted the mutual restraining order and my lawyer suggested we agree to it. The mutual RO states that my W and I can have no contact until the D is final except for emergency communications about the children. That's it. I don't know how to get the RO dropped without my W's help, and I doubt she'd want to drop it. But we really need to start talking, I think... before she loses her love for me and is completely happy where she's at.
Me: 29 W: 29 S: 7 S: 4 M: 8 BD 10/15/14 (Order of Protection) D filed 10/14 Letting God change my life. Doing the hard work to be the H my W always needed and to be the father my children deserve.
