My problem is that I feel so angry with him and resentful for what he did. I find myself snapping at him over nothing and feeling even more hurt than I did in the first month after I found out about his affair. Is this normal? Shouldn't I be feeling better by now, not worse, especially since everything is going so well between us?
I think a certain amount of anger is normal. But at some point you need to forgive him if you are going to have a normal marriage. What PLAN are you carrying out to recover? He has expressed true remorse and what is in place to keep this from happening again?