I have one question for you: Why would her walking around naked do nothing for you, but her verbally saying the words "I want to ML to you tonight" would have? It seems to me that the words are actual pressure, whereas the nakedness is more of a seduction type thing. Much more subtle.
Can you explain this to me? Cause my H is the same way. Seeing me naked, seeing me in lingerie, none of that does anything for him. But if I were to press the issue and actually ASK him for sex, he'd deliver it in a heartbeat and with happiness. But can you see how that sortof ruins the experience for me? To have to ask for it, or make it so dang obvious what I want, when it's obvious to ME that my other methods didn't work--and that is a confidence killer.
I suppose it is a difference of styles as much as anything else. What do you think?
