WAH - gone almost 1 year, still so hard.

[stacey9]

Thank you suckerpunch you are right, I am just going through the motions. No matter what I do or where I am H is always on my mind. How dare he fall in love with someone else.

And thank you LisaB, Danemom, DFE and everyone else for sharing your experiences and for being so kind. It really helps.

The L told me it's often the case after the separation papers are drawn up and the finances split that nobody actually files for divorce for many years. I certainly won't be the one to file. I do have visions of him wanting to marry this woman which just tears me apart.

I do need to GAL - and honestly I am busy and getting on with things. I am positive and upbeat around him and have not once mentioned the OW or asked any question about his future plans.

Thanks again everyone, I do appreciate you all taking the time to help me when I know you are hurting too.