Not sure if it's in the budget (it's barely in the budget for us) but have you thought about bringing in extra help around the house. I'm planning to set aside money each month to have someone come and clean the house either monthly or biweekly depending on what I end up needing. I figure if my husband can save up money to find an apartment or whatever he decides to do, I can put money aside to make mine and my children's lives easier and less stressful, plus it will allow me to focus more on them and their needs. It's a win-win and well worth it, I think.


Me: 38
H: 43
Kids: 2,4
T10 M6
BD: 1/14
11/14: H moves out