Originally Posted By: Starsky309
Good answer.

Not leaving the marital home (or the marital bed) is one of those near-100%-consensus things around here.

Starsky


Agreed.

Is there some unusual ownership dimension we're missing? I mean, does HER family own this place?

(I only ask b/c there was another situation around here where someone had said early on, that the in-laws owned the family home, but it was forgotten - so the advice was a bit off.) Assuming not, I'd say your response was a darn good one.

Remember some of the things YOU said before (e.g., you "never loved" her, etc.) And it wasn't true. You were sort of "Trying on" an opinion. I mention this so that when you hear painful things-

Please realize 1) they may not be true, at all, AND OR

2) they may not be true for very long,

Nothing is written in stone. Stay the course. GOOD LUCK!


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change