Night for me here. I did the Relationship Health test from Tim's thread and was happy to score an 11. I emailed the test to H at work to see if he perceived our M the same way I did and as usual, he ignored it. I think the first statement in the test must have freaked him out ie. "I am satisfied with our sex life." He probably did not read much further than that. Later in the evening I teased him and asked him why he did not do the questionnaire I sent him and he brushed me aside quickly and changed the subject and pretended to go to sleep instead.
My H is just so closed up when it comes to any relationship talks. My question is how do I get him to open up a little more or do I just leave him as he is and not try to "force" him to become someone he isn't. Its just that one of my LL is WOA and I do so need to hear him say ILU etc but H claims that Action speaks louder than words (can you tell that his LL is AOS?)
Has anyone here had any success in "teaching" their S how to speak their LL? I really, really would like to "teach" my H to open up to me a bit more so we can talk about us but I simply have no clue how. He talks to me easily about anything else, family, work problems etc but when it comes to us, he just clams up and thats where it matters to me most. Any help or ideas would be appreciated.
