Advice: Ignore the text. All he is doing is checking to see if you can be hooked. When you take the bait, he will drop you again. It is how the walk-away operates.

Just the other day my WAS sent me a text asking if I would bring home some milk when I drop off S16 from soccer practice. Now, I don't live at the house nor do I ask her to do my shopping. So what would be her motivation other than laziness? She is testing me to see if she can still string me along.

So how did I respond? Sorry, your "honey can you pick up some milk" card expired 3 years ago.

Was that a harsh response? Probably. But I don't care and she is a big girl.

So back again to your question, I say ignore it and let him stew on it. If he texts again, keep on ignoring it. Stay dark and continue to see how things evolve. Meanwhile, take care of you!


Me51 W53 S17 S14
M22 T25
Bomb-9/11; A-11/11; I move out 11/11

It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.

Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife