So still having a good PMA about our exchange today. I'm not sure of the next step. I sent her some follow up on the items that we talked about in the agreement. She didn't reply back at all, but I guess I assumed that would happen.
Anyway, I think its time to go dark again until counseling next week. The MC said that we need to become friendly with each other first before anything else would happen. It was a tough thing to go through today, but I'm encouraged by our interaction in the end. I'm still not sure if its a lie and she knows what to do to get me to soften up (she's done that before) but I think I just need to resist the urge to keep pushing it.
Mind reading (really just venting), but I'm also pretty sure she'll go back and talk to OM, he'll give her some bad advice, she'll believe that if she follows the advice it will get him closer to leaving his R and she will back down the friendly tone of communication.
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)