In my sitch he's been openly cheating for months since bd I did the whole nicey nicey, that did not work in any way shape or from. His complaint when he complained of every thing before constant now is she doesn't answer my text she doesn't answer my calls.
Now he's right where I was when I was being nicey nicey. He is still attached to the r his laywer letter tells me so. A long involved statement.
I smell fear on his side and loss, but even tho he's sending bestie to stalk me and his taking long distance ow to stores in the hope of rubbing my nose in it. So far he's not a scrap of attention from me and in his case it's all about him.
I suspect it took him about 5 or more months to even notice nc. His laywer letter he talks of seeing gg in passing. Um he hasn't seen gg even in passing unless you call him driving by in traffic or a funeral in July or mediation. None of which is in passing or social.
A few weeks in some cases they sigh, and think how nice it is. You need him to know exactly what it's like when your done.
If you have no children then really really dark.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26