From reading experts books on the subject, one of them said that in 90% of marriage counseling, he had to teach the women to be their husbands lovers. So if 90% of couples going to counseling have problems with LD females, I am assuming that divorced couples are similar. Obviously there are other reasons for divorce too.
Now as for the way a women should look, well lets say that I married my first wife for her personality first and her looks second. But she gained weight and has never been comfortable with her "cuteness". So my wife has SEVERE body image issues and I had nothing to do with it. I am happy with her. But if I were looking for a new woman, I probably would shy away from women that are not in the greatest shape because I do not want to have another women with BODY ISSUES, I want a woman that is very comfortable with the way she looks.
As for younger women, that I don't necessarily want. I want someone near my own age. But I can see why men that have affairs go for younger women. It is simple, they tend to be more sexual.
So if I were on the market, I would be looking to find a cute, somewhat in shape women in the 35-45 age range. Someone who has no hangups about her body, should LOVE sex and affection, and have no hangups about sex.
And yes, I am in pretty good shape, and getting better all the time. I hope to have at least the first glimmer of 6 pack abs by the end of the year.
