I find funny stuff to send him all the time but never do becuase I can't decide if that's something that will earn me a spot in the "friend's zone" or not. I could just reply with "Hahahaha" and leave it at that, but would IGNORING it get me better results?

I did tell him a while ago I didn't want to be friends with him after our break up logistics were finalized, because I want to be in his life as MORE than a friend.

But will frequent, light contact draw him closer (so long as he's initiating, of course)?

So unsure of what to do!

ME: 38
BF: 40
T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice)
BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R.
10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW
12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies