They are out there CeMar. I didn't believe it until I met one aged 40. She told me her H had dried up on her and that she couldn't live without lots of sex. She told me I was only the second guy she had fallen in love with and the first was not her H. When she kissed me she practically sucked my crowns out and my teeth were left pearly white. I was completely besotted with her but age gives you the gift of cynicism and I was not in so much euphoria that I didn't notice some scary behaviour like sudden mood swings, inconsistent stories about her situation and her apparent lifestyle of serially dating guys she met in bars. Our R never actually became sexual (other then talking about it) but she asked me 4 times to leave my W and be with her but each time I could not face leaving my children and the comfort of my own home. Not to mention the financial worries - she could have been upto her eyeballs in debt for all I knew. The HD women are out there but sex is only one part of their package. I now feel relieved that I stayed with my lovely W and Cs. SD
