I have the same challenge. How to deal with responding.


A couple things I have been trying

1. Wait (sometimes over night)
2. If it is informational, don't reply

Since most communication is through text, this seems to work. I screw it up all the time though and respond immediately.


Me: 35
Her: 33
D : 16
S : 9
Together: 14 years
Married: 12
She left 4/14/2014
Separated: 5/25/2014
OM Confirmed 7/2014
She filed 8/7/2014
I Filed 10/21/2014
Divorce final 2/12/2015