I check out all the women I can, particularly the women around 40. I check for rings. I check to see how they look. I wonder though among the 35+ crowd of women that are probably divorced, why are they divorced. Could most of them ALSO be LD women. I have to believe that most marraiges end for be SSM's and in most of thost cases it was the women that failed. So this holds me back. I flat out want to spend the rest of my life with my lover. That's the only real criteria for a great marriage for me. I would love my wife to be my lover, but unless her sex drive magically reappears, she will never be my lover again.
