Another small thing, but it seemed to irritate W was i had a Christmass card of her sister and it was a really nice card made out to brother,her sister said after we split that i would always be her brother in law and her mum is the same we are all still very close, I suppose she does not like the fact that her own family can not validate her actions, the only person doing that is her single friend whose life is totally messed up
