I know I will have friends, my music/art/dancing, I will have a full and happy life. I will be free in so many ways. H might take my home, my life as I knew it, but he can't take away my spirit, my talents, and my choice to be happy.
Amen sistah!
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Makes me wonder if he's just hanging out and "waiting" for this non-negotiable period to pass, before he can prove we've been separated for two years and can get the uncontested divorce at that point. (Maybe why he wouldn't eat with me. They have this thing about "sharing meals and doing laundry" on the books.)
Well, this might explain his thing about only staying there when you're not there.
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I now can't even see this house getting done as we planned,
Just a thought - if he doesn't finish the house, then its value will be less in a divorce, and he'll have to pay you less for your share, right? Maybe that's part of him not finishing the big stuff?
Also - I know you're busy with the animals and such, but have you started to think about employment options for yourself? Never too early to start learning new skills or brushing up old ones.
