Thanks, Lisa. You are so kind. I Iook forward to you getting back to your computer to hear your ideas;-)

Hi Calibri - thanks for checking out my thread. Yeah, you can see I am struggling to figure out how to manage the NC zone thing. Or even whether I should manage it. I WISH we had talked about activities we could do to improve things in MC. Unfortunately we never got to that point. That list above - entirely my reflections and revelations on our sitch. If I am angry at anything in all of this, it is the MC for enabling him to move out so damn quickly (yes, I know they say WAS have usually being planning it for a while but I'm not so sure about my H based on the way it happened). Anyway, I'll have a think about your suggestion and see if anything comes up. Thanks again for your offerings of support. Hang in there yourself!


H 37 Me 36
Together 15 years
Married 5 years
No kids
BD Apr 2014
H moved out 2 Jun 2014