I found out 4 months ago about my husbands affair with his secretary. It was both a physical and emotional affair, and they had very strong feelings for each other. He ended it with her because he decided to be with me, but the drama continued for another couple of weeks on her part until finally ending at the end of August. My husband has expressed true remorse for what he did and has been nothing but an absolutely amazing husband and father since that time. We've done a lot of work on our marriage to fix what was wrong in the first place, and I'm seeing a counselor for myself and my issues. My problem is that I feel so angry with him and resentful for what he did. I find myself snapping at him over nothing and feeling even more hurt than I did in the first month after I found out about his affair. Is this normal? Shouldn't I be feeling better by now, not worse, especially since everything is going so well between us?
M: 33 H: 45 Married 10 yrs. T: 12 yrs. Kids: 4 yr old and 7 yr old Bomb Drop 8/7/14 OW gone as of 8/21/14
