Thursday H: Miss U crazy Friday H: Just let you know someone cut fence at lot. Saturday H: Hope you are having a good day Sunday H: Did a job this morning for $$, u want it?
After a couple hours I responded to last text:
M: The money needs to be put in our business account. H: Why you got to be a bitxx M: Do not call me names. I will not tolerate that behavior.
Hours later:
H: U know I really want to come home and work it out that is why I have tried contacting you these pass few days, no response.
M: When and If OW's gone from your life for good. I may entertain the thought of discussing our relationship at that time. Until then, please do not contact me unless it is business or child related. Thanks for understanding.
H: I do understand and you have every right to be that way. I deserve whatever you do to me. I am sorry.
M: This is not being done to punish you, this is being done to protect me.
Then today I get "I miss everything we did together". Have not responded. Have been quite good at the dark thing. I had failed at that in the past but am finding it easier to hold my boundaries.
My question is this. Do I not respond to anything? Do I open the door just a bit or what should I do. I know it's only been a week since I went dark and that's why I'm asking.
Me-49, H-45 M - 4, Together 9 SS-9 Bomb Dropped - 9/12 Separation - 10/12 Reconcile -2/13 Separation - 8/2013 Reconcile - 10/2013 Separation - 12/2013 Reconcile - 2/14 Separate - 5/14 H Filed D - 8/14
