Hi Ganb8te,

Just stopping in to say hi and offer support. Six months to the day H moved out stings a bit, I imagine.

I see a few similarities with our stitches. Primarily with alot of the doing the same things, etc.

Long shot, could you invite him out for a local activity that you both had talked about in MC? Might be worth a shot - especially if you emphasize that it's just fun and you remembered he expressed interest in doing it?

I'm keeping an eye on your thread, as I don't have any kids with my H. We're on limited contact and I'm concerned we will get into NC zone. Seeing how other people handle it, gives me a game plan, should that day come.

Hang in there.


M:32,H 32
T:10, M5
BD/H Move Out: 9/2014 - extreme anger
H Mental Illness Diagnosis: 4/15
Served D Papers: 10/15
Divorced: 11/15