Went to MC today. Main goal was to go through a prelim separation agreement that I drafted up. Broke some rules of DB, because I was stuck in the moment. However, it seems like we made a lot of progress on our interactions.
Arrangements w/kids has been an issue for some time. I am struggling trusting her with the kids about things she's done, especially walking out the door. This led to discussion of R and how I feel. It got heated, then the MC took us one at a time for about 15 minutes. When we got back together, she told me that the issues in our M were not just me and she betrayed me and broke my trust for me and the kids, then she apologized. I said I'm trying to allow the trust come back to me, but its going to take some time. I thanked her for sharing those things with me. I could see that she was crying with the MC while I was not there. This is the first time that there was any remorse or apologized for what she has done in the M.
After that, we had the best conversation we've had since BD. Nothing more on the R, but arrangements for the agreement. It was so nice to have a talk that seemed like the person I've known was back.
No expectations, but feeling better about the future of our interactions whether we reconcile or not.
Last edited by MCS; 12/02/1406:46 PM.
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)
