Thats another problem added on for the HDH. The LDW can fake it. The LDH cannot! And its mental, the more they worry about it or the more pressure they get from their wives, well, I guess the worse it becomes. Your hypothetical question is funny. Now lets see, if I were married to a HDW, I probably would be considered LDW. About 15 years ago, when I was younger, naive and stupid I was drawn into a R with a married man. I didn't know it then though I do now. He had a SSM and his LL was physical touch and words of affirmation. Thats probably why I got so infatuated with him. Anyway his M had gotten into a point where he had lost most of his confidence, he would say, "You would get bored with me after a while", "If I wanted to sleep naked with my W she would probably tell me, go put some clothes on, you'll catch cold." I regret the R because it was a stupid thing to do getting involved with a M man but it was wonderful to have your LL met and not just one LL but both. He said all the things I loved to hear and since it was a long distance R, he would write letters 10 pages long. I love getting letters and H has only given me one card after all these 11 years we've been together! I still keep it of course and would take it out during occassions to tease him about not getting me any more cards, said I would have to frame it up but he still doesn't get it.
About 15 years ago, when I was younger, naive and stupid I was drawn into a R with a married man. I didn't know it then though I do now. He had a SSM and his LL was physical touch and words of affirmation. Thats probably why I got so infatuated with him. Anyway his M had gotten into a point where he had lost most of his confidence, he would say, "You would get bored with me after a while", "If I wanted to sleep naked with my W she would probably tell me, go put some clothes on, you'll catch cold." I regret the R because it was a stupid thing to do getting involved with a M man but it was wonderful to have your LL met and not just one LL but both. He said all the things I loved to hear and since it was a long distance R, he would write letters 10 pages long. I love getting letters and H has only given me one card after all these 11 years we've been together! I still keep it of course and would take it out during occassions to tease him about not getting me any more cards, said I would have to frame it up but he still doesn't get it.
