a young marriage in trouble

[lnlyshp]

Vanilla, thank you for the encouragement. I need to realize that time is my friend. I also have been thinking about your point about spiritual improvement. I need to improve mind, body, and soul. I appreciate all the members of this board, the community has been very welcoming and full of great advice.

Nettles, unfortunately I did. It all came out like word vomit. I recently finished DR as well, but for whatever reason felt the need to try and explain myself to her. I was discouraged by her suggestion that she had basically made up her mind. Perhaps I was trying to convince myself more than I was trying to convince her. Either way, I am very embarrassed about calling her and even more embarrassed about what I said.