I noticed you first said the two of you were using the same IC, then later you referred to that person as a life coach. I looked it up on the Internet, and apparently, it doesn't take much education or experience to be called a life coach. I am not saying this to cause you more worry, but your W's condition may require a more higher skilled professional. It sounds as if she may need to see a docor for medication (temporarly), and maybe a pyschologist.
Do you feel her using these words......"fog" and "MLC" are really her words, or someone who has said it to her? Maybe you could not tell.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
