Hi Vanilli. You are much too kind. I am far from an example My detachment was perfect for the first 4 weeks but once she started to talk about missing me and being homesick I think she could she my detachment slip. I never said anything but she could proberbly tell.

Re the MLC , unfortunately she seems to be the poster girl. I have no control over her or her feelings but to watch someone I have loved so much for over twenty years become this person is incredibly hard and I'm not sure I have what it takes to deal with it I know I have to but Looking ahead the road seems very long and dark.

I thank you for your kind words and hope all turns out as you want it to

Take care