Seems like alot are feeling the same way I am. That their marriages are not going to last

I am going to pursue coulseling, check out if my insurance will even cover it and see if I can start to figure out why I can't seem to let the resentment towards my H drop. I know this must be keeping me from making progress with him. I just don't seem to care anymore if we move forward. I did notice that he is "slowly" reading the book because its in a different place and there is a bookmark in it. Since he told me he wants to work on things, make the marriage work he has made advances at me twice, thats twice since New Years. I did not feel any spark there, but I didn't let him know that. It was kind of hard since we had not so much as even kissed for almost 5 years before that.

Has anyone else had such resentment towards their spouse and corrected that?

Annette