I talked to a close friend today about my Christmas plans and he liked them. Except he said maybe I should reconsider the Santa idea. He said yes there should be two Santa's but he said maybe me and her should talk about what each is getting for them from Santa. That way Santa doesn't buy the same gifts for two houses, no kid is going to want that. Parents that fine for the same gift but Santa is special. I had to agree, these kids are already going through so much.
So tonight at the concert I told the wife you are partially right(I was surprised no OM at concert). We should at least talk about what each person is getting them from Santa. And SHE asks me are we doing more than one Santa. I wanted to just shake her, are you serious I know I have said this about three times now. But I didn't. It's like she just doesn't listen to me when I talk.
M36/W30 S13,D10,S6 Married 4.5 together 12 Bomb 1/14 EA/PA OM 1/14 still going Served 2/14/14 Separated 3/14 D paused 6/14 6/15 divorced