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[Zues126]

I have missed some of your sitch, but not once have I head anyone saying telling a WAS they wanted to make things work was a positive step.

-it is pursuing and drives them away
-it allows them to keep you as a plan B and avoid some of the consequences of their actions
-it can make you look weak/needy/unattractive to chase
-if there is a debate about whether or not R is possible, if you take the side of "it is" you force her to take the side of "it isn't".
-she knows she still has you and can keep punishing you for the pain you've caused her

Bottom line, if a WAS wants the M to work they will let you know. No M failed to be saved because the LBS didn't pursue.

Not only wouldn't I bring it up, I'd recommend mentally preparing some responses for if she temperature checks you. HINT: if she starts to talk about chances of R, she isn't ready to recommit. She is testing to see if she still has you. Don't let her know you are standing by the M.

This is what I've read here for 6 months with 100% consistency. Good luck!