We've made no progress at all. He promises all kinds of things but never follows through. Basically, he complained about me trying to touch him intimately. He never touches me intimately and would prefer to have our touching on a junior-high handholding level. He loves backrubs, but I no longer want to touch him at all. It's kind of like having a platonic roommate or being a nun:( He, on the other hand, thinks everything is great. I would love to have a husband who appreciated my touch and wanted to touch me. I can't live this way much longer.