Thanks Lina. I read your post on the other thread. What you have said sounds exactly like what I feel, only I couldn't put it quite as eloquently as you. I have given the sitch some thought and have decided to perservere with my written communications to H. I convey myself better in writing, I think, and H is an avid reader and thinker. I am sure he reads most of what I write and think about them. Just have to control my disappointment in not getting any response and hope that it will get through to him someday.