I don't know what others think, but I find this to be a good article /list on detachment.

http://www.marriageadvocates.com/ubbthreads/ubbthreads.php/topics/266618

M-44
W-44
Sons- 11&14
Married- 18
Together- 27
Separation mentioned- 9-29-14
Still together, but not "together"
"if you feel rotten and forgotten,
remember there'll be better days."