Was. Does she want to come home ?

[Vanilla]

RD

Yes, I was asking about medical help for W.

Thanks for that clarification. Sounds like W needs some medical help but can't afford it and needs counselling and won't have it.

In your eyes she's not taking responsibility for herself and is losing her relationship with her children. Living hand to mouth and day to day. What will you do if she does breakdown, is there a plan?

All she has to do is open her heart and see that she has a loving family and return to it. Although damage has been done, it would seem from your description that this is still possible?

MLC is illogical behaviour and it seems you have fully understood that W needs to resolve issues for herself. I can see why you are sad.

I admire your spirit and strength in this detachment and have taken this as a strength in my own sitch. Using you as a role model.
Thank you
Vanilla