Hi vanilla. Not sure about your first paragraph If you mean medical help then she is getting none. Her finances are very very tight and she moved out when they were even worse. She told me today that she feels she lived her life always worrying about the future and not enjoying the now. She will not be getting a full time job as she wishes to live her life day to day That's ok but at 46 you have responsibilities to four kids
My as has always been close to my oldest but he has pulled away for her over her lies and her leaving Each day she is different and I am not sure what she is thinking.
Re her pulling back , I will give a few examples
She told me she is homesick and misses me. I responded that she was missed and nothing was set in stone She came straight back and said that she had made her bed and now had to lie in it.
She told me she was in a MLC and about to have a breakdown. I offered to pay for an I/c of her choosing and she told me it was her problem and she would figure it out
Just back from hospital with D16 because his anathema flared up And he need a nebuliser Doc told me stress can be a major factor !!!!!! D16 broke down this morning because he said he can't understand why W left the family All very sad. I know it's life but still very sad
