So, this email exchange has spun up a couple exchanges back and forth. Wow, there's some tension. I've been pretty collected on my replies, but I'm starting to get sick of her making out like I'm the one that isn't trying to work through this. She has stuff in there that tries to make me look like a bad guy in all of this.
I can see some of the stuff I reply back in there shows my frustration. I need to work on that.

She has said that she doesn't feel comfortable around me. I'm still unsure where all of that has come from. It never was an issue that she told me in the M, its just been since she has left it seems. Weird thing is its pretty much been NC after BD week. I guess hiding an A for 9 months may do that; but other than that I just don't know.

Anyway, some back and forth on finances. I can tell that there's a lot of stress in both of our conversation. She keeps doing things and gets mad when I explain that it affects both of us....like the house. I really hope that we can improve our communication, counseling is not really helping because she's doing her own thing outside of what we agree to do there anyway.

S5 told me that they went out for Ice Cream with OM, his GF and their son. Yeah, there's another boundary that she has not even given a thought of. Man my stomach turns when I here that she's around his GF and I so want to let the GF know, I feel so bad for her that this is happening under her nose. I know that would not be productive at all. Mind-reading, but I guess the chase is still on for W to prove to OM to leave his GF.

Last edited by MCS; 12/01/14 11:31 PM.
M:36 W:37
T: 15 M:11
S6 D5
BD: 8/10/14
IDLY: 8/12/14
S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids)
D Mentioned: 10/15/14
Confronted about OM: 10/15/14
EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13
She filed: 8/15 (not final)