ntincu, A concept I think about a lot is that "I won't let this be the defining moment in my life." That being said it is an opportunity for self improvement, become a better father, friend, person. Grieving is difficult and it is a process, however, keep setting goals and improvement will come.
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015