Hi all! It's been a while! Where do I start?

Things had been getting better. My W and I were meeting every week when we exchanged our kids and things were going great. We were talking, laughing, hanging out. Everything seemed to be finally going in a positive direction. That is until October.

My kids had wanted me to go around with them trick or treating and had been asking their Mom for this for many months. She would never give them a straight answer when they asked about it which was causing them a lot of anxiety. Finally, after my D7's gymnastics class, all of us were leaving together when the topic of Halloween came up. My D7 asked her Mom if I could come with them. One thing led to another and I made the brutal mistake of getting drawn into an argument with my W, with the kids there as well frown Like I said, brutal.

So, since that time, my W has stopped talking to me directly. She barely will even respond to a text. It's been a huge setback for all of us. I'm trying to stay patient, not push anything.

In other news, the house was listed for 6 months and did not have one single showing. I didn't relist with the realtor, we are going to try again soon. I have rented an apartment over in her province and have been travelling back and forth each week. It's hard but it's so worth it.


Me-40,W-37
D7, D5, S3
Separated Oct 3/2013
T 11 YRS
M 7 YRS