a young marriage in trouble

[lnlyshp]

Thank you all for the wonderful advice.

Calibri, I think you're right about me being all over the place. It really is a roller coaster ride. I go from depressed to angry to lonely to rejected and even optimistic in the course of a day usually. You're also correct about focusing on the changes in my life and letting time do it's thing. I need more time to reflect on the reasons my marriage failed. I need time to make the changes I told myself I would. Thank you for the kind words.

Mozza, I am starting to see my own position in her heart. It is just so hard not to be discouraged when she says she is happier without me. But you're right, I have to stick to the plan and give her space. Like Calibri points out, it hasn't even been that long for me, especially compared to some of the vets here. I will definitely take your advice and start looking at my relationship from that perspective, hopefully that will give me strength in regards to following the rules and sticking with the plan. Thank you for the advice.

Paul, I have been trying to get in shape. My problem has always been I'm a chubby skinnyfat kid that has no idea where to start and no clue as to my way around a gym. I've been starting to eat healthier though and walking most every day. I just need to start hitting the weights!

Thanks again for the advice everyone. I needed that perspective.