I think you are definitely educating yourself, and starting to measure your success. Keep doing that. Something I did (or am doing) is that instead of reaching out to her or saying something to her in the heat of the moment, I held it back and wrote it down in a journal. It is a great release and helps with understanding yourself even better. I think you got some great information from paul 47 and mozza.
You can't control her or her actions. You can control yourself. Do things you love, or you have always wanted to do. This is an opportunity for you to become a better Father, Friend, Son and Husband. It is not over until you want it to be over. Keep your head up and do your 180's and follow the LRT.
Good luck!
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015
