Little, I'm sorry to hear about the situation you're in. I'm fairly new to this site so take what I say with a grain of salt but just wanted to say sorry for what you're going through. To an extent, our situations are similar. Just wanted to chime in on what LisaB said about not hearing from your H/W. My W and I have been separated for 2months now. She texts me everyday, usually multiple times a day about nothing, just friendly talk. She usually calls me on her way to work and we talk about anything for 30-45minutes.
No I'm not bragging..but there are days like today or on Thanksgiving where I barely hear a word from her and then…the roller coaster starts. "WHY ISNT SHE TEXTING ME? WHY HASNT SHE CALLED? WHATS DIFFERENT ABOUT TODAY THEN YESTERDAY? DID I DO SOMETHING WRONG? CRAP IS SHE LOSING INTEREST?"
Like Lisa said, sometimes I wonder if its better to be on the other side of the fence? I wonder if all this texting/talking is actually harmful because your BF actually has a chance to miss you because he hasn't heard from you? Whereas my W and I almost talk…too much?
I think 2thepoint, has a point..haha no pun intended. If you are dark, stay dark. Your BF will come around when he wants to talk, and that's something I am slowly learning. We can't force them to do anything or explain why they do the things they do…heck they probably can't explain it themselves..they just do it because they want to. My W only recently started calling me, out of nowhere. I did what you did, and let her be the one to initiate, and no matter how difficult it was, I let her come to me, and slowly she is. Keep it up, and I hope nothing but the best for you!
ME: 28 W: 24 M: 2.5yrs T: 5yrs BD: 22 SEP 14 W Leaves: 5 OCT 14
