Ride with W last night was pretty quiet. The few words she said were pretty snarky, but I had my spew jacket on and I didn't fight back. She complained that she had an awful weekend because she spent it alone packing up all her things. I acknowledged that it must have been difficult for her, and when she asked what I was thinking, I said we see the situation differently, but this is what she wants. She said she knows this is what she wants but that it is difficult because it is coming at such a high cost. I told her I care about her still and hope this makes her happy. She snapped that she won't be happy for a long time...
Last night she slept at her friends' house where she will be for the next couple months.
We have decided on what to have in our S agreement. Now I'll need to get with the atty to write it up. Cost is $1500... I want to kick that can down the road a bit if at all possible in case W comes back, but I know I need to proceed with getting things finalized to protect myself.
UpperCut Me: 28 W: 25 Married: 4 yrs Together: 7 yrs Dday: 9/14 (W ends affair & comes home) S: 12/14 (W restarted affair 1/15; moved near OM 2/15) No kids