I wanted to thank you all for the past six months!

I fought a good fight. But the end is here. I thought long and hard last night. Had a talk with the kids. Told them that I'm very sorry for ever making them feel bad when they talked about Chris the OM. Turns out they kind of like him. They where just putting up a front for dad to not try to hurt my feelings. He is a nice guy but with some very strange behaviors. I can't stand in the way of my wife's happiness. This guy makes her happy. And he is nice to my kids. So I'm not going to hold hope anymore and let them be happy. She is obviously hurting because I still hold on. And that's not fair to her.

So the plan is I'm going to fill out all the divorce paperwork and give it to her after the holidays. I would do it sooner but I don't want to wreck Christmas for her. I can't thank you all enough for always being there for me. In January it marks one year of this all. I hope you all the best through your holidays! Good luck to you all!


M36/W30
S13,D10,S6
Married 4.5 together 12
Bomb 1/14
EA/PA OM 1/14 still going
Served 2/14/14
Separated 3/14
D paused 6/14
6/15 divorced