Selling the house was probably a mistake on my part, but it all happened right after I found out and wasn't making the best choices. I'll have to live with that, it's just a house.

I have been going out as well. She always asks where I'm going. I never ask her. I don't know anything for sure, but she doesn't really hide where she is going. I think she just assumes I know. Some nights she doesn't even come home. This is all new behavior since the OM came on the scene.

I'm going to use the line about being an adult and making your own decisions, Even though it feels like she's acting like a teenager.

Again, thanks for all the input. The support means a lot.


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Married 7, together 11

Ilybinilwu Sept 27/14