If I would have moved out could we have saved our marriage? It sure doesn't look like it can be saved now.
The damage has been done weather it was the right decision or not. How do you know?
Zed, you'll never know. And it doesn't matter, you can't change it anyway. All you have to work with is the right now.
I wonder if I hadn't had my head buried so far in the sand and had figured out H's A much earlier in the game, would he have given it up? I'd like to think yes, but that puts the blame on me for not finding out earlier, and that's crazy. It was his bad decision to break our M vows. Same thing with you. You can blame yourself for not moving out, but what does that accomplish, really? Nothing.
