Thanks twinmom. I can't say that I'm confident in doing so (backing off). Something tells me that she's crying out for my emotional support.

I wanted to send her a message this morning, just asking if she's OK. I am hesitant in reaching out to her though.

I think I need to consult with my DB coach on this one.

M: 15 years
BD: 6/25/14
EA/PA: starts 5/14/14
11/30/14 - A ends
5/15/15 - D is finalized.
11/28/15 - Start of new LTR with a wonderful woman (and still going strong)!