Trying to look at the positives of my situation. I can, at any point, make any choice I want. For instance, I could find an apartment closer to work - I've lived 45 minutes away for the past 10 years, solely because BF didn't want to move out of the town we lived in.

I guess the choices are mine and mine alone to make. I just need to decide what the plan is and get working on it!

ME: 38
BF: 40
T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice)
BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R.
10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW
12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies