Divorced and moving out.....still hopeful

[NewB3]

Tired of having dreams of capital W a W moving on completely while I'm still hanging around. I noticed on social media last night that her marital status or relationship status is gone I had wanted to do mine a few weeks ago and failed to do it I went this morning and fixed it.
This made me think a lot. I began feeling like I should completely lose touch with her and her family for a little while. I need time for myself. My focus I now realize is been all about her even though I'm doing things for myself I making decisions based on her being in my life.
Drop off of my son last night went exactly as I had planned I went in he ran to her gave her a big hug and almost knocked her down they laid on the floor saying I love use and laughing as I walked by.they seem to be having fun I quietly latest things on the chair and was ready to go when I walked back over to her she reminded me of a few things she had found while packing this weekend. I took those items to my car. I then walk straight to my child gave them a kiss on the head and said see you this week he had been talking about lunch yesterday. He was telling her about his dessert.he didn't know what restaurant we had gone to and she could not figure it out so she asked me which restaurant. I kept the conversation brief I try not to make too much I contact with her to show I was busy thinking about doing other things. Not sure if that was the right thing to do. She mentioned that she had traveled an hour away to do some shopping while she was off last week and had lunch at that same restaurant and you started to tell me what she had to eat. She raved about how good it was and I followed with well that sounds nice. I then gave my son a hug and told him again I would see him this week I was out of the house in under 10 minutes. As I'm walking out I'm closing the door behind me and she starts to walk towards me and realizes I'm just leaving. She says goodbye I said goodbye without turning around and she said have a good Night, and I followed it with you too and kept walking.
I feel strange about not contacting her parents after such a nice weekend with the family that I wanted to send them a thank you card. However I think not contacting them might be better. She is constantly over there and hanging around and chatting with them these days which is good. However if I don't come up in conversation for a while I think that would be best.